Bukola Arugba Breaks Silence on Separation from Damola Olatunji, Urges Fans to Let Sleeping Dogs Lie

Popular Nollywood actress, Bukola Awoyemi, professionally known as Bukola Arugba, has finally addressed the lingering curiosity surrounding her separation from fellow actor Damola Olatunji. The pair, who share twins from their past relationship, went their separate ways in May 2023.

Although the exact reasons for their split were never clearly stated, widespread rumors hinted at allegations of infidelity against Olatunji. However, Bukola has now clarified that the separation was primarily due to the relationship being unworkable, despite her efforts to make it succeed.

Why They Parted Ways

During a candid question-and-answer session with her fans on her YouTube channel, the actress expressed her frustration over the constant inquiries about her past relationship. She emphasized that both she and her ex are living their lives peacefully and co-parenting effectively.

“We went our separate ways because it wasn’t working. I tried my best. I can only speak for myself—I tried my best to make it work, but it just wasn’t working,” she admitted.

Bukola further urged her fans to put the matter to rest, adding:
“My ex is living his life, and we are not fighting. We are co-parenting very well. There are some things deeper than what the eyes can see. He is the father of my twins. Please, I am saying this to all my fans: I beg you in God’s name, let sleeping dogs lie.”

Opinion: When Public Curiosity Becomes a Burden

Celebrity relationships often attract public attention and scrutiny, but there’s a fine line between curiosity and intrusion. Bukola’s call for privacy is a powerful reminder that not every aspect of a public figure’s life should be open for public dissection.

While fans may feel entitled to know every detail, it’s important to respect her wishes and allow her the peace she deserves. It’s refreshing to see the actress taking control of her narrative and boldly appealing for restraint from her followers.

The truth remains that co-parenting peacefully and moving on positively should be the focus, rather than dragging the past into the present. Bukola Arugba’s plea for understanding is not only reasonable but deserving of respect.

Now, the real question is, will her fans finally listen and let the matter rest?