“Stop Living for Comparison” – Rudeboy Warns Nigerians Against Societal Pressure

Nigerian singer Paul Okoye, popularly known as Rudeboy, has sent a blunt message to Nigerians on the dangers of living under societal pressure.

Taking to Instagram, the music star lamented that people have become too obsessed with comparisons, often using them as a yardstick for success.

In his words:
“Aswear dis generation na madt people full am!! Haba!! Everything na comparison, class, level, maturity, bla bla bla… And na mumu go still listen to this poor mentality psychos, then come go put themselves under pressure. Like wtf!!!”

Rudeboy’s comments come at a time when social media culture has amplified unhealthy competition, with many people measuring their worth against curated online lifestyles.

Opinion: A Timely Reminder in the Age of Social Media Pressure

Rudeboy’s outburst may sound blunt, but it carries a powerful truth — comparison is the thief of joy. In a world where everyone is constantly flaunting wealth, relationships, and lifestyles online, it’s easy to feel left behind.

But as the singer points out, most of these comparisons are rooted in a “poor mentality.” People forget that social media is often a highlight reel, not a true reflection of reality. Many who feel pressured to “level up” may end up in debt, depression, or toxic competition just to meet unrealistic standards.

Rudeboy’s message is clear: run your own race. Life is not a competition, and true success is not measured by how much you impress others, but by the peace and fulfillment you enjoy.

At a time when society constantly shouts “more, more, more,” perhaps the real flex is learning how to be content with what you already have.