Marriage Is Not A Trap - Comedienne Real Warri Pikin Tackles Abuja Single Men.
Real Warri Pikin noted that, despite the women' readiness for marriage, many men are unwilling to marry and instead prefer to have baby mamas.
Anita Asuoha, a well-known Nigerian comedienne also known as Real Warri Pikin, has challenged unmarried men in Abuja for refusing to marry.
Real Warri Pikin noted that, despite the women' readiness for marriage, many men are unwilling to marry and instead prefer to have baby mamas.
She also mentioned that many of them claimed they were not emotionally ready to settle down.
This was said by the comedian in a recent video posted to her social media sites.
She emphasized that she is overwhelmed by so many complaints from individuals in the state regarding the messy dating pool.
Speaking in pidgin English, the comedian inquired, "Abuja men, what is happening to the dating pool in Abuja?" I've heard that one of them is scattering. What happens in Abuja, men? You are not ready to marry and commit. You'll just see a responsible girl who lives her life, works from 5 to 9, does her thing, and wants to be a baby mother."
She lamented that many men prefer to have children out of wedlock rather than commit to marriage, saying, "They would say, 'I simply wanna have a baby with you and you're so brilliant, I like you a lot. Have a baby for me. Is there no laboratory? Na chemical solution? Abuja men, the information is reaching me is that you people don’t want to settle down and the girls are ready.”
She went on to say that, despite women's desire to marry, men in Abuja were adamantly opposed to the concept.
"The girls are ready to marry, but all you tell them is that it isn't you, but me." I can't love you like you deserve right now. I am emotionally available right now. However, you are free to utilize the girl for ground. What's up. Do you never get tired of being outside? Waist no dey belefu person o.
"You've been outside for too long, and the females are moaning. They are ready, but you have said no, and you are outside, claiming marriage is a trap. Una don redefines marriage. God's own institution, una don, redefines am. That's the narrative and the agenda wey dem dey push.”
She noted that there are many people including her that are enjoying the marriages, adding that she met her husband in Abuja.
"Many of us enjoy marriage. Wetin dey happen Abuja men. No be to wear native dey waka dey look up. You dey frustrate these girls. You go see serious girlfriend dey follow you dey do, dey understand with you, dey respect you.
You go see a serious girlfriend; she will follow you, understand you, and respect you.
"What's on your mind right now is how you're going to give her Belle; you don't want to marry am. What happens. The girls are ready. Good girls exist now; dismiss the notion that there are no good girls anymore. What's happening in Abuja? Na, this is the spouse. I marry; I don't do 11 years."
In 2023, Real Warri Pikin achieved her dream wedding as she remarried her husband, Ikechukwu in June.
This caused a buzz on social media with a cute video from her second wedding to her husband.
Before the special day, Warri Pikin had been sharing loved-up pictures with her fans and followers.
